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Its the same girl again..... yeah wait so what diseases can my friend get even if there both virgins?

Starlight - 2008-04-05 18:42:11 - Women's Health

My friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 15. She wants to have oral sex with him and do it to him. Im trying to figure out 4 her if thats a good idea or not. and if you strongly discourage that what would you suggest them 2 do?

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I discourage it. I'm not saying that your friend and her boyfriend are lying, but only they know whether they've already had sexual contact. This is a "What if..." chart: http://www.vpul.upenn.edu/ohe/library/Sexhealth/sti/riskchart.htm What else can happen at this young age if they become sexually active? Jealousy. Anger. Resentment. Loss of self-esteem. Loss of reputation. Cheating. Depression. Lying to partner and parents. Lying awake wondering if he/she is going to dump you. Worrying about STDs. I volunteer at a womens health and pregnancy center and speak to many sexually active teens, some of who became sexually active as early as age 12. Being sexually active (at any age!) can complicate your life beyond belief. I have spoken to countless girls who said, "I wish I hadn't slept with that guy--now he's left me and I have a disease/I'm pregnant/I hate myself/he's telling everyone I'm a slut." Like another poster, I advise people to wait until they're married or at least in an adult, mature, committed relationship.

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well any sexual transmidded desses aids herpeys ect

i STRONGLY discourage any sexual action UNLESS their MARRIED! that goes for EVERYONE

dont do it

If they're both virgins, then they don't need to worry about STDs, however it would be a good idea to get into the habit of using birth control, so perhaps you could recommend using a condom:)

How does she know if he's a virgin? Guys lie a lot. If he is, she obviously won't get a disease, but she WILL get a very bad reputation. He will tell his buddies as soon as she leaves so he can feel like "the man." Don't let her ruin her name and reputation. And is he going to do her, too? Probably not.

DO IT

You know, my main issue with this is who's doing the oral? WHY should she be the one with her head in his lap? HMMM?? Girls get the bad name and are labeled "whore" "hoe" "slut" or whatever if they're going down on a guy - and what do they get? A jaw ache and a nasty tasting mess, not to mention a bad rep! If that guy can't hold off without getting head, then he's not worth it. Tell him to wank his own wanker! Selfish Boys every one of them!

I discourage it. I'm not saying that your friend and her boyfriend are lying, but only they know whether they've already had sexual contact. This is a "What if..." chart: http://www.vpul.upenn.edu/ohe/library/Sexhealth/sti/riskchart.htm What else can happen at this young age if they become sexually active? Jealousy. Anger. Resentment. Loss of self-esteem. Loss of reputation. Cheating. Depression. Lying to partner and parents. Lying awake wondering if he/she is going to dump you. Worrying about STDs. I volunteer at a womens health and pregnancy center and speak to many sexually active teens, some of who became sexually active as early as age 12. Being sexually active (at any age!) can complicate your life beyond belief. I have spoken to countless girls who said, "I wish I hadn't slept with that guy--now he's left me and I have a disease/I'm pregnant/I hate myself/he's telling everyone I'm a slut." Like another poster, I advise people to wait until they're married or at least in an adult, mature, committed relationship.